During my first winter away from apartment dwelling, in a house, a real house, with a fenced-in yard and a driveway with a mailbox at the end, we had a snowstorm. I’m not talking about a little snowstorm. I’m talking a 22-inches-in-24-hour blizzard.
At first it was so cozy, just me and the dogs around the fireplace. I had stocked up on groceries so there was no problem there. We languished about and watched television coverage about how horrible the storm was and how many people had ventured out in it (say what?) and had slid off the road and what a terrible mess it all was. I was feeling quite smug, and warm and delicious as I watched huge flakes continue to fall outside.
Around noon, the mailman came. I guess that saying is true about the post office, by golly, I had mail! I bundled up in ski bibs, a parka, hat, gloves, scarf and waterproof knee high boots. If something happened to me during my stone’s throw roundtrip trek, I was not going to become a statistic. Cell phone in pocket, I took off to the mailbox. It felt wrong violating the virgin snow, but I had to get the mail that had been so bravely delivered. I reached in and got it and made my way back to the house. Crisis averted.
Upon leafing through the stack, I came upon an ominous pink slip. There was nothing on the front to indicate that I had a parcel. Hmmm… I turned it over. Two words I’ll not soon forget, scribbled in Neanderthal mailman scrawl: “need rock.”
Need rock. Need rock? What kind of Neanderthal mailman did I have? What kind of rock did I need? What did I need it for? I gazed outside at the mailbox. Maybe he needed a rock to stop his car from sliding too far in this deep snow? It was really all I could come up with. I decided I needed a large rock that would stop his car at just the right place so he could put my mail in my mailbox in this deep snow.
Wow. It was a little, um, deep outside for me to find a big rock right now, I mean, we WERE in the middle of a blizzard, but I guess if I wanted to continue to receiving my mail I needed to follow Neanderthal mailman’s request. On go the bibs, the boots, the parka, the scarf, the hat and the gloves. The cell phone goes in a baggie in my pocket this time, realizing this might take a while.
Beyond the back of the house was a thick stand of trees. I knew the snow would be shallower there, so I headed out to find the rock. Several hundred yards and down a steep hill I found the perfect one. It looked like it would remain upright even if a car bumped it. I picked it up. My word, it was heavy! I managed to carry it about twenty feet before I plopped it down. Off to the house for rope.
I returned with rope and made a sling and started pulling. The darn rock kept getting hung on things, and battling what is now close to three feet of snow, I’m cold and exhausted. Time for the dog. Off to the house to fetch Molly.
Molly is the loveliest dog, a lab mix and she loves the snow. I knew she’d be up for a little Dr. Seuss-like adventure, with a bundled-up me and Neanderthal mailman rock in the ravine out back. Sure enough, she was good natured when I tied the rock to her harness and asked her to pull and made a big game of it! She actually managed to pull Neanderthal mailman rock all the way to the end of the driveway. What a good dog!
So now I have to calculate how much room I should put between this rock and the mailbox. My own car is pretty average and his car is pretty average, so I measure my car and apply the same measurements and decide just where to place Neanderthal mailman rock. After some heaving and some hoeing, I manage to place it just where I think it should be.
Whew. Thank goodness that episode is over. It’s taken the greater part of my afternoon to comply with my mailman’s cryptic request. Time to settle in.
The next day breaks with even more snow. As I work around the house, I’m pretty proud that I was able to pull that one off yesterday. Being a single woman in the country isn’t so bad, in fact, it’s kind of fun!
At some point around mid-day, the mailman arrives. I quickly run to the window to watch to see if everything goes will with the rock. I see him writing something, which I’m certain is a thank-you for such a speedy response, then he deposits the note and the mail, puts the car in reverse and takes off.
Bibs, coat, hat, scarf, gloves, boots. Off I go. I fetch the mail quickly and bring it in. Going through it I find Neanderthal mailman’s note. “I meant gravel.”